Catholic Wedding Ceremonies without a Mass

The Catholic Church has very specific guidelines about what music is appropriate for weddings.  In addition, each individual pastor is entitled to set further guidelines specific to his parish.  It is standard procedure for all music choices to go through an approval process through the parish music director or pastor of the parish in which the wedding will be held.

Music Planning Form

It's helpful at the start to understand the flow of a Catholic liturgy before choosing music.  This blank form will help you get started.   Then follow the links below to find recordings of suggested music for use in the liturgy.

Overview

There are so many choices for wedding music today that it can be overwhelming.   This planning guide is the result of over 20 years experience of providing music  for weddings.  I've narrowed the choices down to those most often requested, and  have adhered to the requirements of the Catholic Church and our pastor at St.  Martin of Tours.  To view the music suggestions, simply click on the corresponding links.  If there is other music you would like that is not on this  list, please discuss it with me.  If you are planning your wedding at least 3  months ahead, I will be glad to learn new pieces.
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Outline of Wedding Ceremony

        Prelude Music, including the seating of the mothers
        Processionals for the Bride and Bridesmaids
The Introductory Rites
        Processional Hymn
        Greeting
        Collect
The Liturgy of the Word
        First Reading
        Responsorial Psalm
        Second Reading
        Gospel Acclamation
        Gospel Reading
        Homily
The Marriage Rite
        Vows and Exchange of the Rings
        Unity Candle
Intercessions
The Lord's Prayer (In the interest of congregation participation, this is recited at St. Martin of Tours)
The Sign of Peace (It's rather awkward to sing while verbally wishing someone peace.  I generally play quietly here.)
Asking for Intercession from Mary
The Final Blessing
Postlude